
COUPLE ARGUES THE LONG AND SHORT OF WIFE'S HAIR
DEAR CR-ABBY: How do I make my husband understand that how I cut my hair has nothing to do with him? I am 30 years old, and I have a full-time job and three kids who are involved in everything. Because I am always on the go, I need a hairdo that is easy to manage and cute, so I ended up getting my hair cut short. I love it. It makes me feel younger, cuter and trendy.
When my husband and I started dating, I used to have long, thick hair -- but I was not aware that keeping my hair long was "part of the deal." He feels I cut my hair purposely to go against what he wants. That sounds selfish to me. Isn't it MY hair?
-- SHORT AND TRENDY IN WEST TEXAS
DEAR CR-ABBY: How do I make my husband understand that how I cut my hair has nothing to do with him? I am 30 years old, and I have a full-time job and three kids who are involved in everything. Because I am always on the go, I need a hairdo that is easy to manage and cute, so I ended up getting my hair cut short. I love it. It makes me feel younger, cuter and trendy.
When my husband and I started dating, I used to have long, thick hair -- but I was not aware that keeping my hair long was "part of the deal." He feels I cut my hair purposely to go against what he wants. That sounds selfish to me. Isn't it MY hair?
-- SHORT AND TRENDY IN WEST TEXAS
Dear Tangle-Free and Tart in Texas,
If you courted your hubby as a long-haired siren and then morphed in to a crop cut shrew and he was paying the bills he holds sway over your cranium but, not if you are paying your way (job and kids).
Frankly, a little less hair can be helpful as I on occasion get lost in those brier patches when search for Miss Happy...but I digress.
Tell hubby that the world is filled with short haired hotties...Halle Berry for example. If he gets too uppity, go for th cue ball look. IN a younger day I remember that working pretty well for me as "fantasy fodder" (see below).
Cr-Abby
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