
DEAR CR-ABBY:
Is it possible to be a slut and still be a virgin? I am 20, and I am good at attracting boys, but I'm still a virgin because I have never had an actual relationship.
I "hook up" with many guys, sometimes two in the same weekend. I bring them home from parties, but they aren't strangers. I know them from school.
Since my best friends and I moved into our apartment, I have brought five different guys home with me, but I have not had sex with any of them. The other day, one of my friends told me I'd better be careful that I don't get a reputation. I was surprised because I thought you had to actually have sex with a lot of people in order to get a bad reputation. I'm just having fun. What do you think?
-- HAVING FUN IN VIRGINIA
Is it possible to be a slut and still be a virgin? I am 20, and I am good at attracting boys, but I'm still a virgin because I have never had an actual relationship.
I "hook up" with many guys, sometimes two in the same weekend. I bring them home from parties, but they aren't strangers. I know them from school.
Since my best friends and I moved into our apartment, I have brought five different guys home with me, but I have not had sex with any of them. The other day, one of my friends told me I'd better be careful that I don't get a reputation. I was surprised because I thought you had to actually have sex with a lot of people in order to get a bad reputation. I'm just having fun. What do you think?
-- HAVING FUN IN VIRGINIA
Dear Having Fun Almost Inside Vagina,
Your "not crossing the threshold" stance does not vaccinate you from being tagged with the "slutty virus" rap.
Perceptions are reality and of course there is the range of things one can do that do not involve crossing into Virginia :)
It is your harem of different guys that invokes other girls a) jealousy b) rumor mill fodder c) bathroom scribble infamy
It is your harem of different guys that invokes other girls a) jealousy b) rumor mill fodder c) bathroom scribble infamy
Have fun in the overt manner you have opted for but recognize there is a trade off...my guess is the other girls would trade with you any day.
BTW: your letter didn't have your address in the return address spot, I need that for the errr uhmmm the file, yeah that;'s it I need your address for the file.
Cr-Abby
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