YOUNG COUPLE LIVING TOGETHER SPENDS TOO MUCH TIME APART
DEAR CR-ABBY: My girlfriend, "Brandy," and I have been living together for about six months. Whenever she has any free time, she's out with her sister or one of her friends.
I am not a needy person, but I yearn for a little affection. Brandy quit her job, and I pay all the bills. I have been paying the bills for three months now, and it hurts me to the bone that she doesn't want to spend time with me. I see no reason why she wouldn't say thanks once in a while or show me some affection.
I must admit that I messed up with her a while ago, before she moved in. When we first started living together, Brandy would sit on my lap while we watched TV and hold my hand every once in a while. But now she says the mess-up is the reason she's not affectionate with me. It almost sounds like an excuse.
I am considering moving back home, but I love her very much. I'd like to work this out. I don't know what to do because every time I think about breaking up, I break down and cry. Help me!
-- HURTING IN CORONA, N.Y.
DEAR CR-ABBY: My girlfriend, "Brandy," and I have been living together for about six months. Whenever she has any free time, she's out with her sister or one of her friends.
I am not a needy person, but I yearn for a little affection. Brandy quit her job, and I pay all the bills. I have been paying the bills for three months now, and it hurts me to the bone that she doesn't want to spend time with me. I see no reason why she wouldn't say thanks once in a while or show me some affection.
I must admit that I messed up with her a while ago, before she moved in. When we first started living together, Brandy would sit on my lap while we watched TV and hold my hand every once in a while. But now she says the mess-up is the reason she's not affectionate with me. It almost sounds like an excuse.
I am considering moving back home, but I love her very much. I'd like to work this out. I don't know what to do because every time I think about breaking up, I break down and cry. Help me!
-- HURTING IN CORONA, N.Y.
Dear Sucking Down Corona's,
If you want the wise and powerful Cr-Abby to offer any meaningful assistance you have to come clean with enough information. This "I messed up" confession is too vague to grasp what's up with YOUR FINE GIRL BRANDY...what a good wife she could be...yada yada yada...did you make a "sailor's mistake" or did you fart when she was on your lap....like I said...Cr-Abby needs data.
However, I have discerned one thing from your letter...Running home to mama and breaking down and crying are signs that you aren't ready to "nut it up and be a man" for Brandy or anyone else.
For all I know the mess up is a errr uhmm little friend you picked up and unknowingly shared with Brandy and the penicillin didn't do the trick.
So, sit down and fess up fully, but for now...you aren't ready for a fine girl like Brandy.
So, sit down and fess up fully, but for now...you aren't ready for a fine girl like Brandy.
Go find your sac and DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT RUN TO MAMA.
Cr-Abby
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